Since there’s no internationally accepted scale for measuring the male libido, your man should record whatever numbers seem appropriate.

That doesn’t mean you have to dress up in leather and carry a riding crop; it means that along with his key, you take power.But as a by-product of his submissiveness, he’s invented elaborate scenarios involving you doing specific things to and for him while dressed in a corset and stiletto shoes (or that involve dressing him up in corsets and stiletto shoes, for that matter). It is a serious matter that requires your love, time, attention and care, as described later in this book. Ejaculation Control When a healthy man is denied an orgasm for a significant period, and then release and permitted to have sex, it takes very little stimulation to bring him to the edge, and very little more to push him across. Some couples will prefer the traditional ‘medieval’ look, feel and opulent statement of a full chastity belt.

Before You Begin Well-made chastity devices don’t come cheap – you won’t get away with less than several hundred dollars at the top end of the market. The other side of the coin is the non-submissive man, who might start feeling incredibly frustrated the minute he’s locked in chastity, even though he’s hardly had enough time to get horny.

You might well be right, but you can be sure that whatever you got up to in those fantasies, they were things that he liked, and not necessarily anything you’d have wanted!

What you may not realize is that a surprisingly large number of apparently traditional men are submissive at heart. They keener your man is on the idea of you becoming his keyholder, the more cooperative he will be and the easier you will both find the process. He’ll end up preferring the bar or the golf course to his own home, choosing the society of his buddies over that of his own family.

Then there’s the fact that men still tend to earn more than their female counterparts; that’s likely to make him the main breadwinner, which in turn gives him a lot of influence over how the household income is spent.